here is the thing about body shame. you don’t get to tell people to feel good about their body if they don’t, just the same way you don’t get to tell them to hate their body. because it’s not yours. you don’t get to decide what they do with it or how they feel about it, just the same way you don’t get to decide whether they starve it, or abuse it, or let strangers fuck it. it is not up for discussion what they do with it simply for the fact that it is not yours.